Fr. Aaron Writes 10th September 2023

Webmaster • September 9, 2023


Leaving Horsham... This weekend I celebrate my last Sunday with you as your Parish Priest. It is difficult to leave a place that has

been my home for nine and a half years as assistant priest and then, later, Parish Priest. I thank you for helping me celebrate fifteen

years as a priest last weekend. I was very touched by your presence and prayers.


Thank you for all the love and support you have given me over these years; I hope I have been able to be a good pastor to you in this

wonderful part of God’s kingdom. This being my ‘first gig’ as Parish Priest means I have had to ‘cut my teeth’ here. So, if there have

been many mistakes and failings and, perhaps, misunderstandings, I hope I depart with your forgiveness.


It has been a great privilege and pleasure to be Parish Priest of Horsham – I hope I have been able to share the love and mercy of

God, promote the centrality of Jesus Christ in our lives and simply follow what I was called to do at ordination – to serve and be

available to all, and to preach, teach and sanctify. We have a wonderfully diverse parish, full of many ages and enriched by so many

cultures, which is a joy to see each week in the celebration of the Mass and the other sacraments. Attention to facilitating the

pastoral life of the parish, celebrating the source and summit of the Christian life, the Holy Mass, well and in a dignified manner,

supporting our schools, making our parish a place of welcome and inclusion and a social place to gather, have all been the focus of

my prayers, work and energy.


Being part of your lives, allowing me to be part of your families, has been so precious to me. Your kindness and generosity have been

immense. A priest is not a priest for himself, but for you. In the ministry of the priest, he is invited into the highs and lows of people’s

lives. There have been many celebrations, joys, much laughter and happiness but, as always, there has been a bearing and sharing

of illness, of hurts, wounds, burdens, bereavements and loss, loneliness, worries, fears and anxieties. I hope I have been always

available to accompany, support and lead you on our joint earthly pilgrimage to Heaven.


The loss of my parents whilst with you has been very hard for me but your love and prayers carried me through those difficult days

and continue to carry me each day. We got through the pandemic together and made it through to the other side. I remember

offering daily Mass for you, alone in church, which I never would have anticipated when I began here; similarly, I never would have

thought I’d be live streaming the Mass and be able to be beamed into your homes! I remember eagerly awaiting the opening of

churches again; I remember thinking that I must make it a special focus, using all my energy and strength, to get people back to

Church, back to Mass, back to the sacraments, without delay, and safely.


I would like to thank all those who volunteer in the parish in so many different ways - you are the oil in the engine of any parish - but

I would like to particularly thank you for your tireless generosity in serving the community. I would like to thank my colleagues in the

Presbytery - Deacon Tom, who has been a fine deacon, friend and pastoral collaborator, Cathy White, who has looked after me in

the house, and my former secretaries, Trish Fitzsimmons and Trish Moynihan, as well as my current help, Sue Smith and Cozette

Rice, for supporting and putting up with me! Special thanks to David Innes and the Finance Committee in being a kind and sure

support in the stewardship of the parish’s finances.


When Mgr John Hull, our former Vicar General and who himself had been sent here for his first appointment after ordination, heard

I was going to be your Parish Priest, he said fondly “Look after my first love.”


I hope I have been able to do that!


Please keep me in your prayers at this time as I pray for you.


Fr Xavier Amirdasamy – has arrived and will be concelebrating this weekend’s Masses. He will introduce himself at Holy Mass and

write in next week’s newsletter.


Robin Charles – After many years of service to our parish, managing our car parking permits and being a member of the Parish

Finance Committee, Robin is retiring from these roles. I would like to thank him, on behalf of the parish, for all his hard work in

making sure that our car parking facilities are well managed. His membership of the Parish Finance Team has also been a great

support to me and many of my predecessors. We wish him well and ask the Lord to bless him.


Altar Servers’ Mass at Arundel Cathedral – Holy Mass will be at 12 Midday on Saturday 23rd September and will be celebrated by

our Bishop. It would be good to see large numbers attending, particularly as it will take place during the 150th Year celebrations of

the Cathedral Church. Servers are asked to contact Grahame Moonan if they wish to attend.

Fr Tristan Writes Feast of All Saints -this weekend

By Webmaster • October 28, 2025
Happy Feast of All Saints! Today the Church celebrates in a very broad way the astonishing reality of Heaven. Heaven means nothing other than to be full of God and fully in God. Heaven is not a guarantee for anyone: it is not something that comes part and parcel with our being created; it is a state that would not be possible for anyone had God not sent His Son Jesus to die to save us. It is an astounding and unwarranted gift! The promise of Heaven is given in Baptism, but it is only realised through our free co-operation to constantly turn away from sin and live in Christ, whose presence is communicated to us through grace, given through the sacraments of the Church - and this makes us saints. The feast of All Saints opens up before us this amazing reality of their existence in God, even now, who have bound themselves in love to Christ forever and thus live beyond death in eternity. We pray to the saints, not because they can do anything of themselves, but because they are totally united to Christ in Love and communicate with him constantly on our behalf; furthermore, they give us wonderful examples of how to live today. Directly after All Saints' Day comes All Souls. This day turns to the atrium of Heaven, that state which we call 'Purgatory'. We are reminded that, when we die, many of us are attached to less serious ('venial') sins that still mar our friendship with Jesus, and for which we have not accepted Jesus' reconciliation. In Purgatory, these souls suffer to pay their debt, as they long to be joined with Christ fully. Every Mass makes present Jesus’ own experience of death: His sacrifice for sins; every Mass thus causes souls to be cleansed and transferred to Heaven through His forgiving mercy. During November, when we pray in particular for the Dead who still need this cleansing, why not ask for a Mass to be celebrated for a deceased loved one? (You may have noticed that your priest tends to announce before each Mass a “Mass intention”, which is exactly what this is; usually a donation is given along with the intention; these donations - along with the offering on Christmas and Easter Days - are his main income). It is also good too, in November, to visit a cemetery and pray for the dead, for which we can obtain a special indulgence. We also pray for all our loved ones who have died this year in the parish, and for those who mourn. Please also join us for a special Mass for all the bereaved on Saturday 22nd November at 10am.

Open Day - St Roberts Southwell Catholic School

By Webmaster • October 11, 2025
OPEN DAYS AT ST ROBERT SOUTHWELL CATHOLIC PRIMARY SCHOOL - We are delighted to invite prospective parents and carers to visit our school and see all that St Robert Southwell has to offer. Come and experience our warm, welcoming community, meet our dedicated staff, and see our children’s learning in action. Visit Dates:Thursday 13th November – from 1:30pm–2:30pm and 4:30pm– 6:00pm and Saturday 22nd November – from 10:00am. To book your place, please contact the school office on 01403 252357 or email secretary@strobertsouthwell.co.uk. We look forward to welcoming you to our school!

Parish Volunteers Party

By Webmaster • October 11, 2025
UPDATED: PARISH VOLUNTEERS’ PARTY, FRIDAY 21ST NOVEMBER – If you volunteer in any capacity here at St John’s – for example, with any element of the Liturgy, with anything to do with our buildings or grounds, in any of our Sacramental or formation programmes, with supporting our housebound parishioners – please join Fr Tristan for a little party on Friday 21st November from 7pm in the Main Hall. If you’re planning to attend, please email the Parish Office at horsham@abdiocese.org.uk, by Friday 31 October, giving your name and the number in your party, split between adults and children.

Confirmation Programme - 2026

By Webmaster • October 11, 2025
2026 CONFIRMATION PROGRAMME - the application form for the 2026 Confirmation programme will be available for those in Year 9 and above to collect from Sunday 26th October. They will be available after any Mass from either Fr Tristan or Deacon Tom who will give you a form in person. These will not be available from either the Parish Office or from the website. Please return the completed form with all the relevant documents to the Parish Office by the closing date of Friday 7th December 2025. Late applications will not be accepted.

Diocesan Vacancy

By Webmaster • October 10, 2025
DIOCESAN VACANCY - Communications Officer, part-time, permanent. Salary: £17,500 for 0.5 FTE (Based on a full-time salary of £35,000). Location: Based in Crawley, with hybrid working & travel across the Diocese required. Application deadline: 16 October Interviews: 22 October in Crawley. The successful applicant will produce and edit accurate, well-written online and offline content across diocesan platforms, telling the Church’s story and its contribution to society. The successful candidate will support the Head of Communications in managing the digital and print presence of the diocese, including content management for our website and social platforms and communications for fundraising campaigns. To find out more and to apply, go to the Diocesan website: abdiocese.org.uk/careers/ptcomms

SVP Update

By Webmaster • October 10, 2025
THE SVP - would like to express their warmest thanks to the parish for the generous support shown over the weekend of our annual appeal. We are grateful both for the financial contributions and to those who expressed an interest in joining us.

Holy Communion Programme - 2026

By bernadette cooper • October 10, 2025
2026 FIRST HOLY COMMUNION PROGRAMME – We are pleased to be able to open applications for next year’s formation for FIRST HOLY COMMUNION (school Year 3 and above). To register your interest, please speak to Fr Tristan or Deacon Tom after any Mass and they will be able to give you an Application Form in person; these will not be available from the Parish Office or from the website. Please return your completed Application Form, together with the necessary supporting documents, by the closing date of Friday 14th November 2025. We are unable to accept late applications, so please get your paperwork into the Parish Office as soon as possible.

Bishop Richard's Weekly Reflection - 12th October

By Webmaster • October 10, 2025
Dear brothers and sisters in Christ, Prisoners’ Sunday falls on 12 October, and it takes place, too, in the Jubilee Year that was started by Pope Francis before Christmas last year. The theme of the Jubilee Year is “Pilgrims of Hope”, and so we might reflect this Prisoners’ Sunday, on the need to enable those who are serving sentences, all those affected by crime, and those who work in our prison system, to be able to re-find hope that they have perhaps lost. I ask you on this Prisoners’ Sunday to pray very particularly for victims of crime, for those who work in our prison system and in our justice system, and to remember very specially those who are serving sentences, and those who are the hidden victims of crime, particularly young ones. Keep them in your prayers, reflect on ways in which you might perhaps volunteer for Pact: perhaps become a prison visitor or volunteer with the chaplaincy in your local prison. I encourage everybody to pray on Prisoners’ Sunday, especially during the celebration of Mass, and also for parishes, where they can, please, to hold a Second Collection for the support of Pact, the Prison Advice and Care Trust. Pact has the most wonderful history, and holds a very special place in care for prisoners and their families. With every blessing

Bishop Richard's weekly reflection - 28th September

By Webmaster • September 27, 2025
Dear brothers and sisters in Christ, The Parable of the Rich Man and Lazarus is, I always find, especially strong in tone. Jesus gives the rich man no name, yet the poor man has that dignity. At the end of the parable, Jesus points out that "even if someone should rise from the dead" the rich man’s relatives would not be convinced. Jesus, of course, does rise from the dead and His warning is an indication of the all-absorbing lure of riches and power. Like the people against whom Amos speaks in the first reading, the rich man in the parable cares nothing for others. Jesus speaks elsewhere in the Gospel about the lure of riches – in the Parable of the Sower, this is one of the things that chokes the growing shoots, strangling them and preventing the crop. St Paul, writing to Timothy, provides us with the way forward: our lives must be marked by faith, love, patience and gentleness. We are called to be saints. This path is not an easy one – the gospels are filled with the Lord’s warning of the hard road, the narrow gate, the call not to look back, but to keep our gaze on Him, that our steps do not stray. Let us take the warning of the parable to heart, together with the guidance offered us by St Paul, that we do not fall into the traps that lie all around us, but keep mind and heart, every effort, on the building of the Kingdom of God in love and service – for this is true riches.  With every blessing,

Bishop Richard's Pastoral Letter - 21st Sept

By Webmaster • September 20, 2025
This weekend, people from all over the Diocese gathered to celebrate 60 years of the formation of the Diocese which took place at Ardingly on Saturday. Reflecting on these 60 years, Bishop Richard, in his pastoral letter this weekend has also been looking ahead to the future. “The journey has seen a good deal of conversation and renewed collaboration taking place across the Diocese, rooted in prayer. These conversations, leading to the development of leadership teams for our new-formed parishes, are bearing fruit. The formation taking place in our communities, together with the increasing working together in our new parishes will pave the way for ever more effective mission across the Diocese. Of course, we have a distance yet to travel; there is much to be done and this will always be so. However, there is no need for us to fear, for all is gift. “Jesus is at your side at every step of the way” Pope Francis reminded us, “He will not cast you into the abyss or leave you to your own devices. He will always be there to encourage and accompany you. He has promised and he will do it: ‘For I am with you always, to the end of the age’.”  The full pastoral letter will be read out at this weekend’s masses.