Fr Tristan Writes 17th April 2025

Webmaster • May 17, 2025

'Baptised people of God/walk towards your light/Christ the Lord is risen/Alleluia!' We sang these words along with thousands of others on a Sunday in Lourdes a few weeks ago, during the Entrance Procession for the International Mass, which takes place in the vast underground basilica of St Pius X. It was a joyful reminder of the connection between our baptism and the Resurrection, which should really be a daily meditation for us as Christians. It reminds us that Baptism is not just an initiation ceremony or act of witness, it is a real participation in the rising of the son of God to life eternal! St Paul reminds the Christians of Rome: "we were buried therefore with Him by baptism into death, in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, we too might walk in newness of life." (Rm 6:4)


The life of the Risen One we receive is something 'new'. In 21st Century Western culture we are obsessed by novelty: so much of what we own is ‘brand new' or the 'latest thing'. But 'newness' in the Biblical context cannot mean something disposable. It is the property of Himself who is ageless and without time. It is, put plainly, divine Love: that power to gaze steadfastly on the true good and become united with it afresh in every moment, in everrenewing wonder, without fatigue or decay.


Our Christian life needs to be a constant renewal of love. Every hour of every day brings challenges, but the goal is to see every hour in its 'newness'. Every prayer, no matter how familiar or repetitious to us, is Jesus's Word spoken anew. The sad thing is that we see our Christian life as something blasé; a key indicator of this is that we stop trying to grow. When we are challenged by a homily or a passage in Scripture, we think "I've heard that before and I already know what that means." When asked to help in the parish, we say to ourselves "no thanks; I've done my bit already". We assume we know how to 'do' faith. We have no desire to increase our knowledge, our outreach, our relationship with Christ or others.


Since the flower of eternal life has already been planted in us in the seed of grace, we should take care not to stifle its growth through a sense of over-familiarity. We can never be too familiar with the Persons of the Trinity who dwell within the soul filled with grace, just as They do not feel too 'familiar' in being united with us. We are to be open to life with Them forever. Especially crucial to this, and beautiful, is that encounter with the Son that we make so frequently, which is Communion with Christ's Risen Body in the Eucharist. Let us pray for our young people who will make this encounter for the first time this weekend! Throughout their lives, may they receive Holy Communion lovingly and always with a sense of doing something 'new'. May all our Communions, too, be warm and affectionate meetings with the Risen Lord, who sacrificed Himself for us, and draw from us a grateful 'Alleluia', each and every week!

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