Fr Tristan Writes 3rd November 2024
It is fair to say that our society is nervous of talking about death. But Christians should never avoid the subject, because ultimately, it is for us the doorway through which we are all called by Christ. November is the Church’s special month to think on those inescapable realities: Heaven, Hell, Purgatory, Judgment: the “Four Last Things”.
Judgment is based on how we have lived our lives. God judges all of us: individually, at the moment of death; and, collectively, at the end of time. The Church will focus on this particularly with the feast of Christ the King, and the prelude to Advent.
Hell is a place without God or love – and this is because it is a consequence of, and punishment for, sin, which is, by definition, to remove oneself voluntarily from God. There is no feast that commemorates Hell, and the Church does not even name anyone who might be there – that is known only to God. Instead, she warns of the possibility, while celebrating the victory of her Lord over it. Christ has shattered the chains of sin to save us from such a fate, if we accept His way instead in free will, not as God’s slaves, but as His children. On Remembrance Sunday, we also remember the shadow of an earthly hell that sin can bring about even here and now, when men abandon God.
Heaven, however, is nothing other than being full of God and fully in God! The feast of All Saints opens up before us this amazing place prepared for the saints, who have bound themselves in love to Christ forever. Meanwhile, All Souls' Day reminds us that, when we die, many of us are attached to less serious sins that still mar our friendship with Jesus, and for which we have not accepted Jesus' reconciliation. In Purgatory, these souls suffer to pay their debt, as they long to be joined with Christ fully. Every Mass makes present Jesus’ own experience of death: His sacrifice for sins; every Mass thus causes souls to be cleansed and transferred to Heaven through His forgiving mercy. (Hence you can give the priest a “Mass intention” to help someone who has died). Every prayer, too, every penance or good work helps these souls, by which their brothers and sisters shoulder their burden to help make amends for them. In November, we can also visit a cemetery to obtain a special favour for them.
Several years ago at HMP Lewes, an 18-year old prisoner asked me: “My mum has died – is there some special prayer I can say for her?” “Yes,” I replied, “Eternal rest, grant unto her, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon her. May she rest in peace.” That boy was not in fact a Christian, but he decided to learn these words and use them every day. Let us use them in this beautiful month, to pray for his mother, for our loved ones who have died, and for those who have no one else to pray for them.





