Fr Xavier Writes 24th December 2023

Webmaster • Dec 23, 2023

For all of us, Mother is so special and the relationship we share is based on a bond of mutual love. On the Fourth Sunday of Advent, it should come as no surprise that Mary is at the centre of the Gospel today, where we are given an account of the greatest message: that there was a young maiden and, in the freedom of her heart, she gave the total gift of herself to God, saying “Be it done unto me according to thy Word”.


In announcing through Gabriel, God revealed the mystery that he kept secret for ages. His love for us is so great that he wants to become one of us. In this plan, Mary was needed by God to be the mother of Christ. The moment she said ‘yes’, salvation dawned for all and she brought the salvation to birth at Bethlehem on the first Christmas Day. She had to say the same ‘yes’ very many times during her life, which wasn’t easy for her to do because every door was closed in her face.


Christmas is almost upon us and, on this Fourth Sunday of Advent, our thoughts turn to Mary, our Mother, who is the model of listening and waiting for the Lord to come. She could only gradually understand the meaning of her ‘yes’ and the mystery of Christmas. In listening, she is showing us the aspect of our Christian life which is of special importance. Yes, to be Christians is to be persons who keep their ears open to what God is calling them to do. We can today ask her to help us have her attitude of listening and responding to God’s call that we bring Christ into our world as she did.


She is so special today because she brought Christ to birth in the stable and she wants to bring him to birth in our hearts. God did not keep Mary out of Christmas – neither must we. This is the spirit of Catholicism.


Wish you each and every one A Merry and Happy Christmas. Thanks so much to all those giving me a Card of Greeting and lots of Presents.


God bless you and your Family.



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Parish Pastoral Council – Formation Group minutes can be viewed below from Monday 23rd April 2024
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By Webmaster 04 May, 2024
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By Webmaster 20 Apr, 2024
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Happy Easter and best wishes for Divine Mercy Sunday. Herewith I shall give a paragraph of my background in each newsletter, since some of our parishioners were interested in knowing some details. As you all know, I am a diocesan priest of Kumbakonam in Tamilnadu, which is heading for its 125th year in September this year, with 262,462 Catholics (as at 2021), 4.4% of the total population, in 93 parishes having 174 diocesan priests and 94 religious priests, along with 647 female religious sisters working in the diocese. There is an old French saying which states that ‘God often visits us but most of the time we are not at home’. In today’s gospel, when Jesus appeared to the apostles while they were at prayer, Thomas was not at home. The others tried to convince him, as best as they could, that they had seen the Lord, but his reaction was doubt. All that went on at the Last Supper and the death of Jesus on the hill of Calvary had crushed Thomas, leaving him disillusioned, angry and deeply wounded and not easily able to trust again without a proof. It's consoling because our path of faith in the Lord is often a slow walk-through moment of doubt and confusion, creating a rift between ourselves and God. Is it any different from our reaction and lack of faith when our life is shattered by a death in the family, the loss of a job etc? The loud doubts Thomas echoes lurk in all of us. Jesus respected Thomas’ honesty and met him at the very point of uncertainty. God understands our situation, too, in moments of crisis and despair. Doubt for Thomas proved to be a growing point of faith, made stronger when tested.  As descendants of first believers, our faith should have life in his name, as it made real impact on the lives of early Christians. They took it to heart and reached out, related and encouraged one another in a prayerful spirit of neighbourliness. There is no greater example of faith than to live with others in a common spirit of friendship, harmony and love. May we strive our best to express our faith in love of our brethren. Have a great Divine Mercy Sunday
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Our Parish Pastoral Council meeting minutes for February 2024 have now been uploaded to the website and can be viewed here
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