POPE FRANCIS’ NOVEMBER PRAYER NETWORK REFLECTION
The loss of a child may be the worst pain a mother and father can experience. In this month's Prayer Network Reflection, Pope Francis asks us to pray for grieving parents. The Holy Father writes:
What can we say to parents who have lost a child? How can we console them?
There are no words.
You see, when one spouse loses the other, they are a widower or a widow. A child who loses a parent is an orphan. There’s a word for that. But when a parent loses a child, there’s no word.
The pain is so great, that there’s no word. And it’s not natural to outlive your child. The pain caused by this loss is especially intense. Words of encouragement are at times banal or sentimental, they’re not helpful. Spoken with the best intention, of course, they can end up aggravating the wound.
To listen to offer comfort to these parents, we need to listen to them, to be close to them with love, to care responsibly for the pain they feel, imitating how Jesus Christ consoled those who were afflicted.
Those parents who are sustained by their faith can certainly find comfort in other families who, by suffering such a terrible tragedy as this, have been reborn in hope. Let us pray that all parents who mourn the loss of a son or daughter find support in their community, and may receive peace of heart from the Spirit of Consolation.
Are you struggling with bereavement or loss? Would it help to have someone to talk to? The Parish has a Bereavement Team able to listen to, and support, people experiencing the loss of a loved one. To find out more please come to our Annual Mass for the Bereaved or pick up a leaflet from the back of church; see below for more details.
ANNUAL MASS FOR THE BEREAVED – On SATURDAY 23RD NOVEMBER AT 10:00AM, we will be holding our annual Mass for the Bereaved, when we remember all those who have died and offer prayers and support for the bereaved of our community. During the Mass, the names of those who have died over the last 12 months will be read out and there will be an opportunity to light votive candles for all those we love who have died. The Mass will be followed by refreshments in the Parish Hall, hosted by the SVP and the Parish Bereavement Group. If you know of anyone who might benefit from attending this Mass, please do let them know. Please also let the Parish Office know if you would like the name of anyone who has died in the last 12 months to be added to our list. All are most warmly welcomed to this Mass.





