Fr. Aaron Writes : 28th November 2021

Webmaster • November 27, 2021


Dear Friends,


Fr David Irwin RIP – Fr David’s Requiem Mass will take place at St James’s Spanish Place, Marylebone on Wednesday December 1st at 12 Noon. I shall be travelling up to London with Deacon Tom. All parishioners are invited to attend. I will say Mass at 8:30am that day here before departing.


Advent Talks – All are welcome to the following talks at St John’s to help us prepare for the great Feast of Christmas.

    • Monday 29th November: A talk on “Hope” – Fr Richard Biggerstaff

    • Monday 13th December: A talk on “Joy” – Fr Tristan Cranfield

    Both evenings begin with Teas and Coffees in the Hall at 6:30pm, the talk begins at 7pm in the Church. All are welcome to begin our        Advent season with some evenings of reflection.


School Form Signing – It is that time of year for school SIF forms to be signed, so I shall be hosting three after-school sessions when parents and carers can just turn up and meet with me for school form signing. These will take place on Monday 6th December, Tuesday 7th December and Monday 13th December - all sessions will be between 4pm and 5pm in the Parish Office.


Synod Path – As you would have heard in my homily last weekend, we will host meetings for the diocesan listening stage of the Synod for three weeks in January. The materials are now available on the diocesan website: www.abdiocese.org.uk for you to download.


Our meetings will take place from the week beginning the 10th January, however in the meanwhile, during Advent, I would encourage the various groups in our parish to gather and meet, to begin to reflect on the questions asked of us in this listening phase.


So, I’m thinking of the Grandparents group, the SVP, the Justice and Peace Group, the Altar Servers, the Catenians, the Filipino community, the Malayalam community,to name but a few. I will also be sharing the Junior Synod materials with our parish schools. I encourage families and individuals to look at the material so that when we come to the meetings in January, we can bring our Advent reflections to the general parish meetings.


I am approaching some members of our parish to be facilitators for the meetings. If I can get enough facilitators, I hope to host three meetings a week, over three weeks, on the topics of Communion, Participation and Mission. I think it is important to host meetings at different times of the week in order that a wider participation may take place.


So, I envisage a Monday evening meeting, a meeting after the Friday morning Mass and a meeting after the 11:30am Mass on a Sunday. All meetings will take place in the Hall..


Guest Speaker from the Holy Land - The Bethlehem Nativity Group TBNG, A missionary from Bethlehem, The Holy Land will visit us on the weekend of 4th – 5th December to briefly talk about the Holy Land and sell religious articles made from Olive Wood from the Holy Land, to help and support the poor Christian families. Any help you could give to them will be highly appreciated.


Fr Alban’s Induction – Fr Alban is inviting all parishioners to join with him in celebrating his Induction as Parish Priest of English Martyrs, Horley by Bishop Richard on Friday 10th December at 6pm. We wish him well in his new role.


Baptism – We keep in our prayers Paul Knytl who will be baptised at the 10am Mass this Sunday. We look forward to welcoming a new Christian into our community.


Holy Communion – when you approach for Holy Communion, if you are a couple or family, please come forward together to receive the Lord. This will expedite the time for Holy Communion. The gaps between the Sunday Masses are short, and so this will help increase the time between liturgies. Many thanks.


Restart – Again I make an appeal for those who would like to help with certain parish activities and ministries. Perhaps you might consider using your time, talent or treasure to assist in one of the following areas of parish life. I will focus on the following to begin with:

    • Children’s Liturgy.

    • Refreshments after Sunday Mass.

    • Adult and Children Formation Programs.



Appointment of an additional Parish Health and Safety Representative - I wish to appoint an additional Parish Safety Representative to eventually take over the role from the current parish volunteer. The role is to assist me in the discharge of my health and safety responsibilities. Please contact me if you wish to consider this role.


The Sacrament of Confirmation – Congratulations to all our young people who were confirmed by Bishop Richard at Worth Abbey last Sunday.


In Memoriam :


Desmond Smythe RIP – Please pray for his wife, Margot and his loved ones. His Requiem Mass will be on Friday 3rd of December at 12 Midday, here at St John’s.


Dorothy Kew RIP – Dorothy’s Funeral will take place at Worthing Crematorium on Wednesday 8th December at 1:30pm.


Nunzio Loffredo RIP – His Requiem Mass will take place on 9th December at 11am, here at St John’s. Please keep him and his family and friends in your prayers at this time.


With my very best wishes and prayers for the week ahead.


Fr Aaron

Fr Tristan Writes 14th September 2025

By Webmaster • September 12, 2025
This week we celebrate the feast of the Exultation of the Holy Cross, commemorating the finding of the true cross on which Our Lord Jesus died, discovered by St Helena in the fourth century. Perhaps the name 'exultation' comes from Jesus' famous phrase in today's Gospel: that, like Moses' staff, the Son of Man must be 'lifted up'. Lifting the Cross refers, of course, to the actual raising of Jesus' dying body on Good Friday high above the crowds. However, it also has a deeper meaning: the crucified Jesus is 'lifted' above all the world - lifted by Christians in the manner of their lives imitating His sacrificial charity, lifted by Christians in their hearts which overflow with gratitude and adoration for the gift of salvation from sin and everlasting death. The image of the crucifix is lifted in our churches and homes and schools. It hangs from our necks, or even in our cars. It appears everywhere where Christian’s act in Jesus' name. And yet it is still an object of mockery for many. All the more reason to raise the Cross high in our lives by sharing love, even with those who hate us. A traditional prayer we offer wherever we pass the Cross is theEn Ego, which prays to draw from the Crucified Lord all the grace and all the necessary virtues to live in this way to do just this, and to resolve to follow Him more closely every day.  "Behold, O good and most sweet Jesus, I fall upon my knees before Thee, and with most fervent desire beg and beseech Thee that Thou wouldst impress upon my heart a lively sense of faith, hope and charity, true repentance for my sins, and a firm resolve to make amends. And with deep affection and grief, I reflect upon Thy five wounds, having before my eyes that which Thy prophet David spoke about Thee, O good Jesus: "They have pierced my hands and feet, they have counted all my bones" (Psalm 21) Amen."

Fr Tristan Writes 7th September 2025

By Webmaster • September 6, 2025
September arrives, and not only in the blink of an eye does the weather seem to change but people seem to be far busier than they could ever imagine! We can suddenly seem to have so much to think about that we can easily find ourselves wondering whether we have the resources to cope, as schools go back and deadlines loom. In the Gospel today, Jesus warns us about the risk of setting out on the journey to God without having sufficient resources to complete it. Our main resource is surely the Holy Spirit Himself, nourishing us in daily prayer. There's an old adage that says something along the lines of "set a little time to pray every day, except if you are busy, in which case double it!"  The other resource we all need to survive the daily challenge of imitating Christ is the support of others. Jesus sent his friends out in pairs, and formed not a society of individuals, but a church. As a priest, I can never forget the fact that the very mission of our parish relies on us all pitching in, helping build each other up, and living our baptismal calling. That is why volunteering in the parish - in the fields of Prayer, Formation and Mission - is so vital, both in our current parish and in the larger parish that we are due to become. I want to express my thanks to all our volunteers by throwing a little party for you all on the evening of Friday 21st November - please save the date! And if you are not already "involved", do have a think about how you might give of your time and talents here at St John's - even in a very small way - to help others along on our journey - and get in touch.

FIRST HOLY COMMUNION 2026

By Webmaster • September 1, 2025
Applications are now open. To register your interest, please speak to Fr Tristan or Deacon Tom after any Mass and they will be able to give you an application form in person. Forms are not available from the Parish Office. The closing date for completed applications and supporting documentation is Friday 14 th November 2025 . We’re unable to accept late applications, so please get your paperwork into the Parish Office as soon as possible and no later than the closing date.

First Holy Communion and Confirmation Programmes 2026

By Webmaster • September 1, 2025
Applications for First Holy Communion are now open. View First Holy Communion page here

POPE LEO XIV WRITES Sunday 20th July

By Webmaster • July 20, 2025
The Holy Father is currently giving a cycle of catechesis on the theme of Hope in this Jubilee Year. Anyone struggling at the moment to connect with Jesus, our Hope, may find power in this extract from one of his recent reflections, given on 25th June. Dear brothers and sisters, Today we will again consider the healings of Jesus as a sign of hope. In Him, there is a strength that we too can experience when we enter into a relationship with His Person. A very widespread ailment of our time is the fatigue of living: reality seems to us to be too complex, burdensome, difficult to face. And so we switch off, we fall asleep, in the delusion that, upon waking, things will be different. But reality has to be faced, and together with Jesus, we can do it well. At times we feel blocked by the judgment of those who claim to put labels on others. It seems to me that these situations can find an answer in a passage from the Gospel of Mark, where two stories intertwine: that of the twelve-year-old girl, who is sick in bed and is dying; and that of a woman who has been bleeding for precisely twelve years, and seeks out Jesus in order to be healed (cf. Mk 5:21-43). This woman, with great courage, made the decision that would change her life: everyone continued to tell her to keep her distance, to keep out of view. They had condemned her to stay hidden and isolated. At times, we too can be victims of the judgment of others, who presume to put a robe on us that is not our own. And then we suffer, and cannot come out of it. That woman embarks on the path of salvation when the faith that Jesus can heal her germinates: so, she finds the strength to come out and go in search of him. She wants to reach out and at least touch his garment. Around Jesus there is a large crowd, and therefore many people were touching him, and yet nothing happens to them. Instead, when this woman touches Jesus, she is healed. Where does the difference lie? In his commentary on this point of the text, Saint Augustine says – in Jesus’ name – “The crowd jostles, faith touches” (Sermon 243, 2, 2). It is thus: every time we perform an act of faith addressed to Jesus, contact is established with Him, and immediately his grace comes out from Him. At times we are unaware of it, but in a secret and real way, grace reaches us and gradually transforms our life from within.  Perhaps today too, many people approach Jesus in a superficial way, without truly believing in his power. We walk the surfaces of our churches, but maybe our heart is elsewhere! This woman, silent and anonymous, conquers her fears, touches the heart of Jesus with her hands, considered unclean because of her illness. And she is immediately healed. Jesus says to her: “Daughter, your faith has saved you. Go in peace” (Mk 5:34).

Fr Tristan Writes 29th June 2025

By Webmaster • June 28, 2025
NEXT WEEKEND (5TH-6TH JULY) ORDINATIONS & MISSIONARY APPEAL - Next weekend will see the Ordination of Gary Carter and Scott Coleman to the Priesthood at Arundel Cathedral. The Ordination Mass will take place on Saturday 5th at 12noon, and will be livestreamed. The ordination of new priests is a moment of rejoicing for the whole Church, and I am sure we will all pray very hard for soon-to-be Fathers Gary and Scott as they begin a lifetime of ministry here in the diocese. All things being equal, they will also be the last priestly ordinations for at least three years in the diocese: a reminder to pray for more vocations! As Vocations Director, I will be busy elsewhere over the Ordination weekend, but I am delighted that the weekend Masses will be covered in the parish by the Missionaries of Africa (the 'White Fathers'), in the person of Bishop John MacWilliam, former Bishop of Laghouat, Algeria. Bishop MacWilliam has strong ties to our deanery, having been educated at Worth. I am sure that you will all give him a warm welcome, and contribute generously to the work of the Missionaries across 24 countries across the African Continent. The Missionaries state on their website: "Our aim is to proclaim the Gospel to the peoples of the African world. Because of its origins, our Society has always had a particular interest in making contact with and understanding Muslims and the Islamic world. All people everywhere are considered by God to be his children. But how can they know that unless someone tells them? ... God needs those who are sent to accept his mission and go! We share this relationship of children of God with those who have never heard, or those who have not understood, or those who have forgotten. We do not impose our beliefs, nor do we despise cultures other than our own. Instead, we offer to share with others the best we have, what is most important in our lives, what makes sense of our lives. We have received freely and must give freely. It would be selfish to refuse to share.... First we speak, but actions speak louder than words..... In Africa, this often means parish work, building up Small Christian Communities, working with the Media, involvement in Justice and Peace issues, inter-religious encounter, care for the environment, agriculture, seminary training both for ourselves and for the various dioceses, education and social welfare. The Missionaries of Africa aim to work in partnership with the local Church in Africa…and above all else, to help build up the leadership of the Churches.”

Bishop Richard's weekly reflection - 29th June

By Webmaster • June 28, 2025
Dear brothers and sisters in Christ, As we celebrate the solemnity of Saints Peter & Paul, I invite you all to join me in prayer for Pope Leo, that he continues to be strengthened by the Holy Spirit in his task as shepherd of the flock entrusted to him. As our Holy Father, he brings particular gifts to the Church through his experience in Peru, where he served with some of the priests of our own Diocese; his times of leadership of the Augustinian Friars, and his service in the Dicastery for Bishops. He comes to the Petrine Office at a difficult time for the world. Let us join him in fervent prayer for peace – for which he has called so many times in these first weeks of his papacy. With him, and in the spirit of his predecessor, Pope Leo XIII, let us continue to strive for justice and promote the dignity of every person at every moment of life. St Peter, our first Pope, could not have imagined the steps he would be called to take in the service of the Lord. This is true of Pope Leo and, indeed, of every one of us. The life that is given to us in baptism – life lived in the love of the Holy Trinity – calls us to follow the Lord Himself, wherever he may lead us. As His disciples, we are called to learn from Him, to grow ever closer to Him, to be always faithful in our witness to Him. This is what it means to be a Pilgrim of Hope, for we journey towards the One who died and rose from the dead that we might have life – and whose first gift after the Resurrection was the gift of peace. As Pilgrims of Hope, may we – with Pope Leo – strive to share that gift with the world.  With every blessing,

Bishop Richard's weekly reflection - 15th June

By Webmaster • June 16, 2025
Dear brothers and sisters in Christ, In this Sunday’s Gospel, Jesus speaks with clarity of the Father, Himself as the Son, and the Holy Spirit. His words express the unity that exists between the three persons of the Blessed Trinity. The Holy Spirit will speak what comes from the Son, who has all that belongs to the Father. We express this in the Creed when we speak about the Holy Spirit coming from the Father and the Son. The mystery of the Trinity is about relationships – the relationships that exist between Father, Son and Spirit, one God. The wonder of God, existing eternally – as we hear in the First Reading this Sunday – pours love into our hearts, as St Paul reminds us. It is truly wonderful for us to reflect that, through our baptism, we are brought to live our lives in the love that exists in the Trinity. We are enabled to live in relationship with a God who is all love and whose love we see and experience as it is lived between Father, Son and Holy Spirit. As we rejoice in our relationship with the one God, three Persons, let us recall that it is God who gives us life and, in the coming days, pray very especially for respect for life in our own society as those in parliament prepare to vote on the “Assisted Dying Bill”. If you have not written to your MP, there is still time. May I thank all those who have written, for such action is a powerful witness to the wonder of life, given us by God. With every blessing,

A message from Fr Xavier

By Webmaster • June 6, 2025
Farewell and goodbye can often evoke feelings of sentiment, sadness, and departure, but they also mark an occasion of joy and the renewal of hope. We must trust in ourselves to move from the ordinary into the extraordinary, from this moment here in Horsham to every corner of the world. Through the power of the Holy Spirit, we are called to be available to all who wish to collaborate, share, and grow together. As I say goodbye, I carry with me all the cherished memories of your loving care, comforting hugs, and unwavering support. I thank you from the bottom of my heart, knowing that you will be there for me, even as I embark on my ministry and face times of need. A special thanks to Fr. Tristan for your kindness—you have made this year a memorable one for me. The portrayal of Pentecost in the Gospel is a vibrant and powerful image of the early church, awakened as an active missionary community. The Holy Spirit descends upon the apostles, with tongues of fire alighting on their heads, breathing new life into this group. The transformation is nothing short of radical: once fearful and hiding in the upper room, they are now emboldened, inspired to go into the marketplaces and boldly proclaim the crucified Christ they believe in. They are no longer the trembling individuals they once were. They have been changed, transformed into a new creation—enthusiastic, eloquent, and with a profound sense of their vocation. The first Pentecost was indeed a striking and exciting moment in the life of the Church. However, the coming of the Holy Spirit is not a singular event confined to the Church’s foundation. The gift of the Holy Spirit, which was given at Pentecost, is still available to the worshipping community here in Horsham, provided we are open and willing to receive it. The Holy Spirit works through human beings like ourselves, depending on our willingness to respond to His promptings. This feast day offers us an excellent opportunity to reflect on how we are using the gifts God has entrusted to us. While our gifts may not always be as spectacular as those that amazed the onlookers at the first Pentecost, their value is no less significant. What matters most is how we use our talents for the benefit of others—whether we are a patient father, a loving mother, a good listener, a generous giver, or someone who takes time for the elderly and the needy. Let us all pray together: "Come, Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of Your faithful and enkindle in them the fire of Your love." My contact details: Fr. Xavier Amirdasamy, PP and VF. St. Joseph’s RC Church, THIRUVALLUVAR NAGAR, LALGUDI S.O. TRICHY Dt-621702. Tamil Nadu, South India.  Mobile and WhatsApp +919443247835, Email xasun@yahoo.com.

NEW WEEKDAY MASS TIMES FROM MONDAY 16TH JUNE

By Webmaster • May 30, 2025
Our ‘normal’ weekday Mass times will be changing from Monday 16th June, once Fr Xavier departs. The new schedule will be as follows: Monday - 12 noon, Tuesday - 7:30 in the morning, Wednesday – no Mass, Thursday – 12 noon, Friday – 12 noon. Occasionally, we may find we need to alter a ‘normal’ weekday Mass time, so please continue to check the weekly Mass times that are published in our Newsletter and on the website.