Fr. Aaron Writes :5th December 2021

Webmaster • December 4, 2021


Dear Friends,


Advent Talks – All are welcome to the following talks at St John’s to help us prepare for the great Feast of Christmas.

    • Monday 13th December: A talk on “Joy” – Fr Tristan Cranfield

    The evening begins with Teas and Coffees in the Hall at 6:30pm, the talk begins at 7pm in the Church. All are welcome to begin our        Advent season with an evening of reflection.


Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception – There will be a Vigil Mass at 6:30pm on Tuesday evening and a Mass at 10am on Wednesday.


Gaudete Sunday – The traditional blessing of crib figures and Nativity sets will take place on the Third Sunday of Advent (11/12 December). Blessed hay will be distributed at the end of Mass that weekend.


Christmas Mass and Services Times – These are now available, please see the posters around the church and also on the parish website and Facebook page. There will be Advent Confessions on Monday 20th December at 7pm and Carol singing around the outdoor crib in the courtyard on Wednesday 22nd December at 4pm. Parish Masses on Christmas Eve will be at 5pm, 9pm and 12 Midnight, on Christmas Day there will be Mass 8:30am, 10am, 11:30am. On the Sunday of the Holy Family there will be only two Masses at 10am, 11:30am.


School Form Signing – It is that time of year for school SIF forms to be signed, so I shall be hosting three after school sessions in the parish office when parents and carers can just turn up and meet with me for school form signing. These will take place on Monday December 6th, Tuesday December 7th and Monday 13th December - all sessions will be between 4pm and 5pm in the Presbytery.


Synod of Bishops on Synodality – we will host meetings for the diocesan listening stage of the Synod in for three weeks in January. The materials are now available on the diocesan website: www.abdiocese.org.uk for you to download.


Our meetings will take place in January from the week beginning the 10th, however in the meanwhile during Advent, I would encourage the various groups, in our parish to gather and meet and begin to reflect on the questions asked of us in this listening phase.


I encourage families and individuals to look at the material so that when we come to the meetings in January we can bring our Advent reflections to the general parish meetings. Please note anyone can submit their own contributions to the diocese, the parish meeting facilitators will submit a parish contribution.


I am approaching some members of our parish to be facilitators for the meetings. If, I can get enough facilitators I hope to host a three meetings in the week, over three weeks on the topics of Communion, Participation and Mission. I think it is important to host meetings at different times of the week in order that a wider participation may take place.


So I envisage a Monday Evening Meeting, a Meeting after the Friday morning Mass and a Meeting after the 11:30am Mass on a Sunday. All meetings are to take place in the hall.


Guest Speaker from the Holy Land - The Bethlehem Nativity Group TBNG, A missionary from Bethlehem, The Holy Land will visit us on the weekend of 4th – 5th December to briefly talk about the Holy Land and sell religious articles made from Olive Wood from the Holy Land, to help and support the poor Christian families. Any help you could give to them will be highly appreciated.


Fr Alban’s Induction – Fr Alban is inviting all parishioners to join with him in celebrating his Induction as Parish Priest of English Martyrs, Horley by Bishop Richard on Friday 10th December at 6pm. We wish him well in his new role.


Holy Communion – when you approach for Holy Communion, if you are a couple or family, please come forward together to receive the Lord. This will expedite the time for Holy Communion. The gaps between the Sunday Masses are short, and so this will help increase the time between liturgies. Many thanks.


Restart – Again I make an appeal for those who would like to help with certain parish activities and ministries. Perhaps you might consider using your time, talent or treasure to assist in one of the following areas of parish life. I will focus on the following to begin with:

    • Children’s Liturgy.

    • Refreshments after Sunday Mass.

    • Adult and Children Formation Programs.


Appointment of an additional Parish Health and Safety Representative - I wish to appoint an additional Parish Safety Representative to eventually take over the role from the current parish volunteer. The role is to assist me in the discharge of my health and safety responsibilities. Please contact me if you wish to consider this role.


The Sacrament of Confirmation – Congratulations to all our young people who were confirmed by Bishop Richard at Worth Abbey last Sunday.


In Memoriam :


Dorothy Kew RIP – Dorothy’s Funeral will take place at Worthing Crematorium on 8th December at 1:30pm.


Nunzio Loffredo RIP – His Requiem Mass will take place 9th December at 11am, please keep him and his families and friends in your prayers at this time.


With my very best wishes and prayers for the week ahead.


Fr Aaron

Fr Tristan Writes Feast of All Saints -this weekend

By Webmaster • October 28, 2025
Happy Feast of All Saints! Today the Church celebrates in a very broad way the astonishing reality of Heaven. Heaven means nothing other than to be full of God and fully in God. Heaven is not a guarantee for anyone: it is not something that comes part and parcel with our being created; it is a state that would not be possible for anyone had God not sent His Son Jesus to die to save us. It is an astounding and unwarranted gift! The promise of Heaven is given in Baptism, but it is only realised through our free co-operation to constantly turn away from sin and live in Christ, whose presence is communicated to us through grace, given through the sacraments of the Church - and this makes us saints. The feast of All Saints opens up before us this amazing reality of their existence in God, even now, who have bound themselves in love to Christ forever and thus live beyond death in eternity. We pray to the saints, not because they can do anything of themselves, but because they are totally united to Christ in Love and communicate with him constantly on our behalf; furthermore, they give us wonderful examples of how to live today. Directly after All Saints' Day comes All Souls. This day turns to the atrium of Heaven, that state which we call 'Purgatory'. We are reminded that, when we die, many of us are attached to less serious ('venial') sins that still mar our friendship with Jesus, and for which we have not accepted Jesus' reconciliation. In Purgatory, these souls suffer to pay their debt, as they long to be joined with Christ fully. Every Mass makes present Jesus’ own experience of death: His sacrifice for sins; every Mass thus causes souls to be cleansed and transferred to Heaven through His forgiving mercy. During November, when we pray in particular for the Dead who still need this cleansing, why not ask for a Mass to be celebrated for a deceased loved one? (You may have noticed that your priest tends to announce before each Mass a “Mass intention”, which is exactly what this is; usually a donation is given along with the intention; these donations - along with the offering on Christmas and Easter Days - are his main income). It is also good too, in November, to visit a cemetery and pray for the dead, for which we can obtain a special indulgence. We also pray for all our loved ones who have died this year in the parish, and for those who mourn. Please also join us for a special Mass for all the bereaved on Saturday 22nd November at 10am.

Open Day - St Roberts Southwell Catholic School

By Webmaster • October 11, 2025
OPEN DAYS AT ST ROBERT SOUTHWELL CATHOLIC PRIMARY SCHOOL - We are delighted to invite prospective parents and carers to visit our school and see all that St Robert Southwell has to offer. Come and experience our warm, welcoming community, meet our dedicated staff, and see our children’s learning in action. Visit Dates:Thursday 13th November – from 1:30pm–2:30pm and 4:30pm– 6:00pm and Saturday 22nd November – from 10:00am. To book your place, please contact the school office on 01403 252357 or email secretary@strobertsouthwell.co.uk. We look forward to welcoming you to our school!

Parish Volunteers Party

By Webmaster • October 11, 2025
UPDATED: PARISH VOLUNTEERS’ PARTY, FRIDAY 21ST NOVEMBER – If you volunteer in any capacity here at St John’s – for example, with any element of the Liturgy, with anything to do with our buildings or grounds, in any of our Sacramental or formation programmes, with supporting our housebound parishioners – please join Fr Tristan for a little party on Friday 21st November from 7pm in the Main Hall. If you’re planning to attend, please email the Parish Office at horsham@abdiocese.org.uk, by Friday 31 October, giving your name and the number in your party, split between adults and children.

Confirmation Programme - 2026

By Webmaster • October 11, 2025
2026 CONFIRMATION PROGRAMME - the application form for the 2026 Confirmation programme will be available for those in Year 9 and above to collect from Sunday 26th October. They will be available after any Mass from either Fr Tristan or Deacon Tom who will give you a form in person. These will not be available from either the Parish Office or from the website. Please return the completed form with all the relevant documents to the Parish Office by the closing date of Friday 7th December 2025. Late applications will not be accepted.

Diocesan Vacancy

By Webmaster • October 10, 2025
DIOCESAN VACANCY - Communications Officer, part-time, permanent. Salary: £17,500 for 0.5 FTE (Based on a full-time salary of £35,000). Location: Based in Crawley, with hybrid working & travel across the Diocese required. Application deadline: 16 October Interviews: 22 October in Crawley. The successful applicant will produce and edit accurate, well-written online and offline content across diocesan platforms, telling the Church’s story and its contribution to society. The successful candidate will support the Head of Communications in managing the digital and print presence of the diocese, including content management for our website and social platforms and communications for fundraising campaigns. To find out more and to apply, go to the Diocesan website: abdiocese.org.uk/careers/ptcomms

SVP Update

By Webmaster • October 10, 2025
THE SVP - would like to express their warmest thanks to the parish for the generous support shown over the weekend of our annual appeal. We are grateful both for the financial contributions and to those who expressed an interest in joining us.

Holy Communion Programme - 2026

By bernadette cooper • October 10, 2025
2026 FIRST HOLY COMMUNION PROGRAMME – We are pleased to be able to open applications for next year’s formation for FIRST HOLY COMMUNION (school Year 3 and above). To register your interest, please speak to Fr Tristan or Deacon Tom after any Mass and they will be able to give you an Application Form in person; these will not be available from the Parish Office or from the website. Please return your completed Application Form, together with the necessary supporting documents, by the closing date of Friday 14th November 2025. We are unable to accept late applications, so please get your paperwork into the Parish Office as soon as possible.

Bishop Richard's Weekly Reflection - 12th October

By Webmaster • October 10, 2025
Dear brothers and sisters in Christ, Prisoners’ Sunday falls on 12 October, and it takes place, too, in the Jubilee Year that was started by Pope Francis before Christmas last year. The theme of the Jubilee Year is “Pilgrims of Hope”, and so we might reflect this Prisoners’ Sunday, on the need to enable those who are serving sentences, all those affected by crime, and those who work in our prison system, to be able to re-find hope that they have perhaps lost. I ask you on this Prisoners’ Sunday to pray very particularly for victims of crime, for those who work in our prison system and in our justice system, and to remember very specially those who are serving sentences, and those who are the hidden victims of crime, particularly young ones. Keep them in your prayers, reflect on ways in which you might perhaps volunteer for Pact: perhaps become a prison visitor or volunteer with the chaplaincy in your local prison. I encourage everybody to pray on Prisoners’ Sunday, especially during the celebration of Mass, and also for parishes, where they can, please, to hold a Second Collection for the support of Pact, the Prison Advice and Care Trust. Pact has the most wonderful history, and holds a very special place in care for prisoners and their families. With every blessing

Bishop Richard's weekly reflection - 28th September

By Webmaster • September 27, 2025
Dear brothers and sisters in Christ, The Parable of the Rich Man and Lazarus is, I always find, especially strong in tone. Jesus gives the rich man no name, yet the poor man has that dignity. At the end of the parable, Jesus points out that "even if someone should rise from the dead" the rich man’s relatives would not be convinced. Jesus, of course, does rise from the dead and His warning is an indication of the all-absorbing lure of riches and power. Like the people against whom Amos speaks in the first reading, the rich man in the parable cares nothing for others. Jesus speaks elsewhere in the Gospel about the lure of riches – in the Parable of the Sower, this is one of the things that chokes the growing shoots, strangling them and preventing the crop. St Paul, writing to Timothy, provides us with the way forward: our lives must be marked by faith, love, patience and gentleness. We are called to be saints. This path is not an easy one – the gospels are filled with the Lord’s warning of the hard road, the narrow gate, the call not to look back, but to keep our gaze on Him, that our steps do not stray. Let us take the warning of the parable to heart, together with the guidance offered us by St Paul, that we do not fall into the traps that lie all around us, but keep mind and heart, every effort, on the building of the Kingdom of God in love and service – for this is true riches.  With every blessing,

Bishop Richard's Pastoral Letter - 21st Sept

By Webmaster • September 20, 2025
This weekend, people from all over the Diocese gathered to celebrate 60 years of the formation of the Diocese which took place at Ardingly on Saturday. Reflecting on these 60 years, Bishop Richard, in his pastoral letter this weekend has also been looking ahead to the future. “The journey has seen a good deal of conversation and renewed collaboration taking place across the Diocese, rooted in prayer. These conversations, leading to the development of leadership teams for our new-formed parishes, are bearing fruit. The formation taking place in our communities, together with the increasing working together in our new parishes will pave the way for ever more effective mission across the Diocese. Of course, we have a distance yet to travel; there is much to be done and this will always be so. However, there is no need for us to fear, for all is gift. “Jesus is at your side at every step of the way” Pope Francis reminded us, “He will not cast you into the abyss or leave you to your own devices. He will always be there to encourage and accompany you. He has promised and he will do it: ‘For I am with you always, to the end of the age’.”  The full pastoral letter will be read out at this weekend’s masses.